The principles of repentance and forgiveness are integrally linked. And one of the steps in reconciling with others is to ask and seek to actually obtain their forgiveness.
We have been discussing humility and pride. It is a very hard thing to seek forgiveness, even impossible, if we have pride in our hearts. But know this. In the scale of the eternities, all things must balance. If others have claims of wrongs and injustices against us, it must be set right. This mortal life is the place to do this. If we pass to the hereafter and have we left unresolved business, it must still be set right, but often our ability to do good has been hampered. One dishonest deed, one damaged friendship, one negative emotion can have consequences that can last for generations.
Asking forgiveness is not strictly for our benefit. Oftentimes this process can start healing and helping others. It helps people release any bitterness and negativity. Whether we resolve these matter or not, it can have an impact on who we and others are and may become. If we can heal and help others and heal ourselves in the process, how much better things can be.
I'm not saying these things to be discouraging, in fact this is good news. As long as we have breath, we can try to progress. Let go of the pride and fear that keeps us from trying. Reach out to others and ask their forgiveness for your wrongs against them, and don't give up till you have obtained satisfaction.
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